Mohd Riyaz Ahmed Quadri Hasami
Editor Patrioitic Views Daily

Islam provides a complete way of life, with patience, perseverance, and faith as its core principles. It teaches every Muslim man and woman to show patience in life’s challenges and highlights the value of loyalty and obedience in marriage as the path to success in this world and the Hereafter. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ emphasized that such virtues lead to eternal success.

The Virtue of Patience
Patience is a fundamental trait for every believer. Allah says in the Qur’an, “Indeed, Allah is with the patient” (Al-Baqarah 2:153). Patience doesn’t only mean enduring hardships but also being content with Allah’s will and handling situations with wisdom. The Prophet ﷺ said, “A believer’s condition is wonderful, as goodness is in every situation” (Muslim). Whether in joy or sorrow, a patient believer is rewarded.

Loyalty and Obedience to the Husband
In Islam, a wife’s loyalty and obedience to her husband is of great importance. The Prophet ﷺ said, “When a woman prays her five prayers, fasts during Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: Enter Paradise from whichever gate you wish” (Tirmidhi). This hadith shows that loyalty and obedience are highly valued and lead to success in both worlds.

Mutual Respect between Husband and Wife
The Prophet ﷺ said, “The best thing in this world is a righteous wife” (Muslim). A good wife, who treats her husband with love, respect, and loyalty, is one of life’s greatest blessings. Islam places great importance on the relationship between husband and wife, built on love, respect, and kindness.

An incident involving the scholar Allama Hassamuddin Fazil, the father of Maulana Aqil, illustrates this well. At a women’s seminar at Osmania University, he commented on a woman’s analogy that husband and wife are like two wheels of a cart. He said, “Indeed, they are like two wheels, but it’s best if one wheel leads and the other follows; otherwise, the cart won’t run smoothly.” This analogy reminds us of the Qur’an’s guidance that men are the protectors of women, encouraging both to fulfill their respective roles within marriage.

Examples of Resilient Women in Islam

• Khadija (RA): The first to accept Islam, Khadija (RA) was the Prophet’s ﷺ first wife and a great source of support, dedicating her wealth for the cause of Islam. Her sacrifices during times of hardship played a crucial role in the early success of Islam. Her loyalty to the Prophet ﷺ offers a vital lesson for all Muslim women today.
• Fatimah (RA): The Prophet’s ﷺ beloved daughter, known for her piety, simplicity, and patience. She supported her father during difficult times and led a humble life with her husband, Ali (RA), raising noble children, including Hasan and Husayn (RA), who became great figures in Islam.
• Aisha (RA): Known for her vast knowledge, Aisha (RA) was the Prophet’s ﷺ wife and an outstanding scholar, contributing immensely to Islamic teachings. Her wisdom continues to guide Muslims today.
• Sumayyah (RA): Islam’s first martyr, Sumayyah (RA) endured extreme torture for her faith, standing firm even in the face of death. Her courage serves as a beacon of strength and resilience.
• Zainab bint Ali (RA): The daughter of Fatimah (RA) and Ali (RA), Zainab played a critical role after the tragedy of Karbala. In the court of Yazid, she boldly spoke the truth, standing as a symbol of courage against oppression.

Preserving Islamic Values Amid Modern Challenges
In today’s world, where terms like “empowerment” and “freedom” are often misinterpreted, true empowerment for women lies in embracing Islamic principles. Muslim women are the pride of their community, shaping its future through their character and integrity. It’s essential for men to uphold a religious atmosphere within their homes and share the wisdom of Friday sermons with their families. This will strengthen Islamic values in society and establish a pious environment.

Marriage and Wealth
While marriage is significant in every young woman’s life, basing marriage on wealth is an un-Islamic trend. Wealth can be fleeting, but faith and good character are enduring qualities. By prioritizing wealth over character, families often face discord and separation. A reminder to prepare daughters with both religious and practical education can help create happier and stronger families.

Patience and Steadfastness in Faith
Future generations of wives and mothers need to understand that true peace comes from being close to Allah, not from wealth. Teaching young women to rely on Allah in every situation will benefit not only their households but also the entire community.

Adopting an Islamic Lifestyle
Parents should instill values of piety and resilience in their daughters. True joy and contentment come from following the Islamic way of life rather than pursuing worldly status. Raising women with strong Islamic values will elevate the entire community’s character and dignity.